Therapy Approach

EMDR Therapy

EMDR is a powerful, evidence-based therapy that helps the brain process what has become stuck, so the past can finally feel like the past.

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What Is EMDR?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a structured, evidence-based therapy designed to help people process distressing memories and experiences that have become stored in the nervous system in ways that continue to cause pain, reactivity, or distress.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR does not require you to narrate your experiences in detail. Instead, it works by engaging both sides of the brain through bilateral stimulation, typically guided eye movements, tapping, or sounds, while you hold a distressing memory in mind. This process helps the brain do what it was not able to do at the time: integrate and resolve the experience.

Developed by

Dr. Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s, EMDR is now one of the most researched and recommended trauma therapies in the world, endorsed by the WHO and numerous clinical bodies.

How it works

Traumatic memories can get stuck in the nervous system, keeping you in a state of alert as if the past is still happening. EMDR helps your brain reprocess these memories so they lose their charge and you can move forward.

What Happens in an EMDR Session

EMDR follows a structured eight-phase approach. Here is a simple overview of what the process looks like:

History & Treatment Planning

We start by getting to know your history and identifying the experiences and patterns you would like to work on. There is no pressure to share more than you are ready to.

Preparation & Resourcing

Before any processing begins, we build a foundation of safety. You learn grounding and stabilisation techniques so you always have tools to manage whatever comes up.

Assessment

We identify a specific memory or experience to focus on, including the images, beliefs, emotions, and body sensations connected to it.

Desensitisation & Processing

Using bilateral stimulation, typically eye movements or tapping, you hold the memory in mind while your brain works to process and integrate it. Most people describe this phase as noticing things shifting naturally, without having to force anything.

Installation & Closure

We strengthen positive beliefs to replace the old ones, and close each session with grounding so you leave feeling settled. Processing can continue between sessions, and we check in on this each time.

What EMDR Helps With

EMDR was originally developed for PTSD, but the research now supports its effectiveness for a wide range of experiences:

Trauma and PTSD

Complex and childhood trauma

Anxiety and panic

Depression

Grief and loss

Phobias and fears

Low self-esteem and shame

Relationship and attachment wounds

Performance anxiety

Distressing memories that still feel present

Is EMDR Right for Me?

EMDR can be a good fit for many people. Here are some things to consider:

EMDR may be a good fit if

You have past experiences that still feel raw or intrusive
You notice strong reactions that seem bigger than the current moment warrants
Talk therapy has helped but you feel like something is still stuck
You want to process without having to retell your story repeatedly
You feel ready to do deeper healing work

Things to discuss first

Active dissociation or instability that needs stabilisation first
Certain medical conditions affecting the eyes or neurological function
Preference for a more talk-based approach
Currently in crisis or very early stages of therapy

Not sure if EMDR is right for you? That is exactly what a free consultation is for. We can talk through your history and goals and figure out the best path forward together.

Frequently Asked Questions About EMDR

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a structured, evidence-based therapy developed to help people process and heal from traumatic or distressing experiences.

No. One of the things people appreciate most about EMDR is that you do not need to narrate your trauma in detail for it to work. The therapy focuses on how memories are stored in the body and brain, and the processing happens largely internally. You are always in control of how much you share.

Talk therapy works primarily through insight and conversation. EMDR works by targeting how traumatic memories are stored in the nervous system, using bilateral stimulation to help the brain process and integrate experiences that have become stuck. Many people find that EMDR creates shifts that talking alone could not.

EMDR was originally developed for PTSD, but research now supports its use for anxiety, depression, grief, phobias, low self-esteem, and many other concerns. If you carry experiences from your past that still affect how you feel today, EMDR may be worth exploring.

Yes. EMDR can be delivered effectively online using screen-based bilateral stimulation. I offer virtual EMDR sessions to anyone located in Ontario.

This varies depending on your history, the nature of what you are working on, and how your nervous system responds. Some people notice meaningful shifts in just a few sessions. More complex or layered trauma typically requires longer-term work. We always move at a pace that feels safe for you.

Ready to Explore EMDR?

If you are curious about whether EMDR might be right for you, I would love to talk it through. Book a free 15-minute consultation and we can explore it together.